Second Marriage – A New Angle
Yes, it’s difficult for us young lot to understand this. But we Must ponder on it and understand; that if- for example, one of us young people Never married till our late 40s or any mishaps like divorce happens in our lives, we feel lonely and need a partner to live life and share life’s small chunks of Happiness so does the case with our parents.
They have settled us- as a single parent for some reason but now they need company and it’s completely natural and O.K….
I hope I’ve made my point!
Until Next Time
Allah Hafiz
A Scene from the film – Actor in Law.
This is By far the BEST film Pakistan has produced in recent years. It had all what it takes to be a great film. Drama, romance, Suspense, Emotions, Patriotism and MOST IMPORTANTLY, it brought focus to the Real, Genuine, Common problems a person face in Pakistan and also their solutions. We definitely need more films like that.
It is MOST Difficult..
People think it’s easy to move on, whether from a breakup, Toxic relationship, Toxic/redicule behaviour that you come from. NO, it’s the Most difficult.
As I’ve write it in some other post once, “To move on, one must CUT OFF from all the things that remind you of those cruel times; whether it’s people,or ANYTHING else. And slowly replace your habits/ memories from those bad times to the New Happy moments. Only then you’ll be able to move on; and there’ll come a time when you don’t even remember those bad times.”
This struck me again today, when I unfortunately opened my old email (to revisit something) – which happens to be connected to my previous job. And as soon as I opened that email, Everything just started coming back to me, all those moments( previous bosses) made me feel little about me etc. And it made me realize that, not only from phone book or blocking from WhatsApp would work, I MUST MUST delete that email also, EVERYTHING -EACH AND EVERYTHING that is associated with the old job should be dislocated from my life, that could Haunt me, to LITERALLY move ( Inshaa-Allah) forward.
Hope this experience will Help you grow.
Until Next Time.
Stay Positive
Allah Hafiz. (God Bless)
The Continuous Struggle!
I think Tara is right. And why is a women Always had to adjust?? It’s not that they are just gf’ and bf’ they are engaged and , she’s ready to support him until he gets a job.
Women, all her life waits for marriage/ to get an understanding partner who supports all her dreams which her parents NEVER let her pursue; due to Many Reasons.
And often when she’s married, people get another reason to stop her LIVE HER LIFE AS SHE WANTS, just because she’s a women/ mother and she had to take care of the house. Why can’t a man, for once take care of babies and house while a girl pursue her dreams/career???
Please think on it!!!
I’ve seen many Pakistani MALE celebrities who take care of the babies while their life partner earns for the house and live their dreams….
So IT’S POSSIBLE !!!!
Please THINK ON IT!!!
Until Next Time..
Allah Hafiz…
Question of the Day..
The second option of course! I’ve tried the first one and would like everyone to know that it’s Not a good place to be both Mentally and Physically.
It’ll drain out your energies and leave you under confident for Life. So have a career- job you are passionate about; even though it provides you less payment. At Least with time, you’ll grow in that field and the payment and satisfaction will grow proportionally.
Chronicles Revived 