Ahhhhhh so difficult yet so true, and probably it’s what keeps you alive and going, I do believe now that one should have a space in life where he/she needs to act that he’s ok… Cuz otherwise you’ll be dragged in your dark thoughts…
Smile & Move on!
The Love Paradox: Understanding the depth of Self Love!
Therefore, first learn to Love yourself, Care for yourself, Work on Self analysis and development, etc.
My father Always used to say,
“Before sharing your blessings, get to a firm ground”
“Pehle Khud Kuch ban jao, baad mai Kisi ki help Karna….”
It doesn’t mean that you wait to become a billionaire before you help, (which I understand after a long time), it means to first possess that quality/goods/ wisdom to spread it around the world.
In short, if don’t know how to treat yourself with honour/respect/love/care or you have not being introduced to such valuable qualities; how would you give that away?
Birthday Post!!!
On my Birthday, I would like to say that one should be Independent, by all means i.e. Physically, Mentally, Emotionally and Most importantly Financially….
Financial Independence is Most important.
NO ONE should dare to exploit you on financial basis.
Girls of our society are exploited and abused just because they are not Financially independent.
Remember, Mental peace is More important than Anything…
P.S. Sorry for being the bearer of Harsh truth on this Fine morning. But it was important.
The Weight to Lose!
that’s probably the most important thing to conquer, once you conquer this, you’ll feel free, a lot of things that we are capable of or want to try couldn’t happen yet because we are still under the pressure that ‘What others will think or say?’ specially our family/friends. On the contrary, if they are our true friends they would support us in trying something new, to find our niche.
Unlearn – Relearn and Apply
Reflecting on the ‘Unlearn’ ‘Relearn’ and ‘Apply’ concept. While having a quiet lunch ( Mashaa Allah) at #Fri_Chicks Bahria Town, Lahore.
Had an eye opening session!
Suggestion to younger self…
I don’t know about younger self, but my 35 year old self is repeatedly reminded that silence is the Best answer in very situations….
Allah Almighty takes your revenge and give you a better outcome/ opportunity than that you were running after….
Need Help!!
Sometimes, it gets extremely difficult to control your anger and emotions, when you are in a continuous struggle for survival and moral combat where your closet relations or family members degrade you on regular basis, devalue you in anything or Everything you do; you have to explain each and every act of yours as if you are in a jail, where whatever you say or do can be hold against you….
And the twist is you can’t even leave that unhealthy place as you are not at all strong, neither physically nor Financially….
What should one do then ?
Energy!!!
As soon as I understood this concept, I started following this approach and strange as it is, people start saying that I’m selfish! But I don’t care, they are immature, draining their energy in useless conflicts and pitty arguments…
Yes, it’s difficult to protect your peace, and somehow lonely as well, but it’s highly important for your Mental, Physical and Emotional health.
All the Best Everyone.
#ProtectYourPeace
Energy!!!
As soon as I understood this concept, I started following this approach and strange as it is, people start saying that I’m selfish! But I don’t care, they are immature, draining their energy in useless conflicts and pitty arguments…
Yes, it’s difficult to protect your peace, and somehow lonely as well, but it’s highly important for your Mental, Physical and Emotional health.
All the Best Everyone.
#ProtectYourPeace
